How Can I Stop Being Average And Just Be Better At Work (And In Life)?

We all want to be better.

I haven’t met anyone who wanted to settle on being average.

In fact, just recently, someone complained to me that she felt she was too average at her work (and life). She didn’t know how to turn it around and get amazing.

So, here’s something I want to share on how you can stop being average — and just be a better version of yourself.

When you wake up in the morning and need to brush your teeth, and you have that thought, “Oh, I should actually floss too,” then floss.

When you go to make yourself breakfast and you have that thought, “Oh, I said I was going to eat healthier,” make the healthy choice, instead of the unhealthy one.

When you go to head to the MRT train for work and you have the choice between taking the stairs or the escalator, and you hear that voice in your head that says, “Oh, I said I was going to be fitter,” take the stairs.

When you get into work and you sit down in front of your first task, and you have that thought, “Oh, I said I was going to work on being more productive,” turn off all distractions and get to work—instead of browsing Facebook, for example. (I even recommend putting your phone to flight mode and leaving it in the drawer).

When you leave work and you’re exhausted and you have that thought, “Oh, I said I was going to work on my IPPT training this week,” don’t go to the bar. Go to the gym and exercise.

When you get ready for bed and you feel like winding down, and you have that thought, “I said I was going to read more instead of watching so much Netflix,” pick up a book instead of opening a web browser.

Being average is a choice—that’s what a lot of people don’t understand.

You know what you need to do.

And a tiny, faint voice in your head reminds you of what you need to do, or what you had said you were going to do, a lot more often than you might realise.

Start listening to that voice.

Start choosing what you “need” to do more often than you fall back into the habit of doing what you “want” to do.

Greatness, then, is nothing more than a daily practice.

Choose to win. Choose to be better. Always.

Making the choice to be better is a daily thing. But it doesn’t mean you do it alone.

Sometimes, you have to tap onto an expert friend. If you need help with your career or CV, drop me a message. I’m eager to see how we can help.

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